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River Valley’s “Cue to Be Well” is a free monthly newsletter, curated by psychologists and other wellness professionals, containing wellness strategies, healthy recipes, clinic updates, special offers, and the like. Try some of our best and most effective techniques right here!

Is your child stuck in a tantrum?
Giving a child a glass of ice water during a tantrum works by engaging their sensory system to interrupt emotional escalation. The sudden cold sensation distracts the brain, calms the amygdala, and activates the parasympathetic nervous system, promoting relaxation. Sipping water also regulates breathing, helping the child regain control. This simple technique shifts focus, reduces stress, and encourages self-soothing without confrontation. Offer it gently, using a calm tone, to help break the tantrum cycle effectively.

Are you caught in a negative emotional state?
Here are some quick techniques to help shift out of your emotional brain (midbrain) and regain control:
- Sour Candy or Gum – Place two sour candies at the back of your mouth where your jaws meet and let the intense flavor jolt your focus away from distress.
- Aromatic Oils – Take a deep breath of peppermint or citrus for a calming and invigorating effect.
- Chapstick with a Favorite Scent – Apply it as a quick sensory refocus tool.
- Rubber Wrist Bands – Use them as positive reminders or gently snap them (without harm) to break negative thought cycles.
- Smile on Purpose – Force a big smile, even if it feels silly—it triggers endorphins, lifting your mood.
- Laffy Taffy Trick – Read the joke on the wrapper, laugh (even ridiculously), and shift your mindset.
If one method doesn’t work, move on to the next—each is designed to disrupt negative emotions and bring you back to the present!

Feeling Anxiety?
Anyone can experience anxiety differently, and not all calming exercises work the same for everyone. However, engaging all five senses can be a powerful way to ease anxious feelings using the 5-4-3-2-1 method:
- 5 Things You See – Focus on five objects in your surroundings, like trees, pictures, or moving cars.
- 4 Things You Feel – Notice textures or sensations, such as a breeze, fabric, or water on your skin.
- 3 Things You Hear – Listen for sounds like rustling leaves, typing, or distant conversations.
- 2 Things You Smell – Inhale scents from flowers, soap, essential oils, or a candle.
- 1 Thing You Taste – Pop in a mint, sip a drink, or imagine a familiar taste.
By shifting focus away from anxiety and onto your senses, you can ground yourself in the present moment. Keep a few small items (gum, essential oils, or a snack) handy for when you need them.

Struggling with procrastination?
The Pomodoro Technique, created by Italian author Francesco Cirillo, helps improve focus and efficiency by breaking work into 25-minute intervals, followed by short breaks. Named after a tomato-shaped timer he used, this method reduces overwhelm by tackling tasks in smaller chunks—great for homework and household chores.
- How It Works:
Clear distractions – Organize your workspace and close unnecessary tabs or programs. - Work for 25 minutes – Set a timer and focus on a single task.
- Take a short break – Avoid screens; stretch, walk, or grab a drink.
- Repeat four times – After four 25-minute sessions, you've completed a productive two-hour block.
This technique enhances concentration and prevents burnout, making tasks more manageable.

Next time you are feeling like you are about to engage in a self-destructive or socially destructive behavior
You may have heard of the H.A.L.T. method being advocated in various ways, and that’s because it can be beneficial in many aspects of life, particularly in building resilience. H.A.L.T. stands for Hungry, Angry, Lonely, and Tired—four common states that can contribute to self-destructive or socially destructive behaviors. Before reacting impulsively, we can remind ourselves to “Halt!” and check in: Am I hungry? Angry? Lonely? Tired? Identifying these needs can help us respond more thoughtfully and make healthier choices.
If you’re seeking a solution to a specific challenge, now is the perfect time to consult with a professional. Our experienced clinicians use proven techniques to help guide you toward your goals for holistic mental health care. Envision a future where your quality of life reaches heights you never thought possible—let us help you get there.
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Verbalizing emotions isn’t just expressing feelings—it chemically rewires your brain for healing and clarity.

Speaking emotions activates the prefrontal cortex, which regulates the overactive amygdala, reducing stress and emotional overwhelm.

Sharing feelings triggers oxytocin, fostering trust, emotional connection, and a sense of relief.

Verbalizing emotions reduces cortisol (stress hormone) while increasing dopamine and serotonin, improving mood and emotional balance.

Talking through emotions strengthens neural pathways, shifting from rumination to problem-solving and emotional resilience.
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Psychiatric Services and Medication Management
Our Expert Consultant
Dr. Henry Emmons, M.D.
We are proud to announce that our psychiatric medication management department consults with Dr. Henry Emmons on a quarterly basis, benefiting from his expertise in holistic psychiatry and integrative medicine to enhance our level of care. A highly renowned specialist, Dr. Emmons is dedicated to fostering resilience as a cornerstone of natural mental health. In his own words, “Most of my work these days centers around resilience, which I see as a key to natural mental health. I believe resilience is an innate gift—you were born with it and you still have it, no matter how you might feel right now.” His mission is to help others recognize and embrace their innate resilience, and we are honored to integrate his guidance into our practice.
RVBHWC Offers:
- Immediate and Convenient In-Person and Online Appointments
- Available for Children, Adolescents and Adults
- Telehealth Accessible Anywhere in Minnesota
Three Ports of Wellness in the Twin Cities
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Waconia
River Valley’s Waconia location is our newest addition, conveniently located off Highway 5, just across the street from Waconia Middle School. This thoughtfully designed space features five private offices, two of which are perfectly suited for play therapy, providing a welcoming environment for clients of all ages.
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Please be aware:
- Not all providers are currently scheduling new clients
- Not all providers are credentialed with all insurance companies
- Some providers have limited hours and therefore have less available appointments than others
- Some providers have a wait time for intake appointments approaching a couple weeks